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Urinary Incontinence: Overcoming an Often Overlooked Side-Effect of Childbirth or Menopause

July 16th, 2008

Childbirth and menopause are two phenomena that many women will face in their lives. Unfortunately, having children or going through menopause can create temporary or long-term issues with urinary incontinence. If you’ve had a baby, you’ve no doubt been told to do Kegel exercises, which strengthen the pubococcygeus muscles that form the pelvic floor between the legs. Toning these muscles helps to prevent the onset of incontinence; yet many women skip these exercises altogether or do them incorrectly.

Women going through menopause can experience urinary incontinence due to a lack of estrogen. Once a woman stops menstruating, her body ceases to make estrogen. Estrogen is, in part, responsible for keeping the lining of the bladder and urethra plump and healthy. A lack of estrogen can be responsible for a weakening of the bladder control muscles.

Pressure from coughing, sneezing, or lifting can push urine past the grips of a weakened muscle. Leakage of this type is known as stress incontinence. It is one of the most common types of bladder control problems experienced by older women.
If you are experiencing urinary incontinence, you should not self-diagnose your problem. It is important to see a doctor first.

Your obstetrician-gynecologist or medical doctor should first perform a physical exam. Your doctor should be certain that your bladder empties properly, that you don’t have a urinary tract infection (UTI) and that you know how to properly contract your pelvic floor or Kegel muscles.

After your doctor has determined that there is no physical deformity, complication or infection, you must next determine which course of action to take. There are three common ways to treat urinary incontinence:

– learning behavioral techniques — how to control the muscles of the bladder and the sphincter to prevent leakage.

– taking medication to replace hormones, stop abnormal bladder muscle contractions or tighten sphincter muscles.

– performing Kegel exercises to work the pelvic muscles.

In most cases, the most effective and beneficial course of action is to work the Kegel muscles back in to shape. But how is one to do that?

Over 50 years ago, Dr. Arnold Kegel discovered that by clenching and relaxing the muscles used to stop the flow of urine, the pelvic floor (or Kegel) muscles could be strengthened and rehabilitated. Because of this discovery, most people have heard of “Kegel exercises,” but what most people do not know is that Dr. Kegel incorporated a device known as the “Kegel Perineometer” that was inserted into the vaginal cavity to measure the contractions and provide feedback to the patient. In this way, the patient was able to monitor the quality of the exercises and be certain that they were being done correctly.

Most women who just “do” kegels have minimal results due to the lack of feedback. There is nothing to tell them if they are doing the exercise properly. The most common problem associated with doing Kegel exercises without feedback is the accidental contraction of the abdominal muscles at the same time as the pelvic floor muscles. When this occurs the abdominal muscles (which are bigger and stronger) push down on the pelvic floor and can actually make the problem worse.

Since it’s not likely that the typical family has a Kegel Perineometer lying around, what’s a woman to do? Fortunately there is a safe, affordable solution that has been used successfully by over 100,000 women to strengthen their Kegel muscles in the privacy of their own homes.

This device is known as The Kegelmaster. The Kegelmaster is a small, hinged device that is gently slipped three inches into the vagina. Once done, a safety knob is loosened allowing the small spring (or springs) inside to open the hinged device a few degrees. The woman will then squeeze her kegel muscles causing the device to close. The Kegelmaster’s two, flat internal surfaces close tightly against one another providing feedback to the user that the exercise has been done correctly and completely.

The Kegelmaster has four positions in which springs can be installed or moved. This allows the user to slowly increase the amount of resistance experienced during each exercise. Exercises can be completed in only a few minutes and results can be seen within a few days and improvement can continue over a few short months. No one should suffer needlessly from this embarrassing problem when a simple, affordable solution is so readily available.

Michael Callen is the author of the Weekly Weightloss Tips Newsletter (ccwebgroup.com/tips) and the Chief Technology Officer for WellnessPartners.com, an online retailer of dozens of health and wellness products such as conjugated linoleic acid (CLA), r+ alpha lipoic acid (R+ ALA), and Green Tea Extract.

Difficulties Interviewing a Public Figure

July 15th, 2008

Although interviewing a public figure may sometimes be just like talking to any other stranger, public figures can also be the most mercurial persons, shifting between being condescending and overbearingly authoritative, depending on the topics at hand. How gab can turn amiable is partly the work of the interviewer; the other is left to the subject.Interviewees can present a problem for the reporter once they request their statements to be “off the record.” Their careers, if not their lives, would probably be placed on the line. In journalists’ parlance, “off the record” information are ones that must not be attributed to the source who disclosed it. Ideally, a nameless source shouldn’t see print, lest the public dismiss the information as unreliable. If anything, information blasting an individual or an organization should not be anonymous. Therefore, everything coming from the subject should be “on the record.” As much as possible, reporters must refrain from off-the-record arrangements. One can refuse a subject’s request for anonymity by telling him or her that the article is meant to preserve reader’s trust. Other times, the subject won’t even go out on a limb to request “off the record.” He or she simply answers the question a bit and deviates from it, hoping the interviewer wouldn’t notice. Almost everytime however, the journalist does. And he or she must remind the subject of the unanswered question. One can politely do this by saying something like “I wonder about the original question.” As for evasive public officials, journalists may remind them that their conversation is a matter of public interest.When worse comes to worst, journalists can grant requests for “off the record” information, provided the editors agree. This is recommended only if the source is unique enough to merit such.

Nokia on to a Winner with the N95

July 15th, 2008

The Nokia N95 is available has been a very popular slider phone since its first appearance. As a entry level mobile handset the N95 is fully featured contrasted with some other handsets at this price. Nokia have done a excellent job on the overall design of this mobile phone.

The Nokia N95 is equipped with Polyphonic (64 channels), Monophonic, True Tones, MP3 ring tones along with a vibrating alert. Compared to other models, the N95 is pretty compact, fitting nicely into the pocket. The Nokia N95 is available in, Silver, Plum, Black, Pink and Red. The N95 weighs 120 g which is acceptable for a phone of its type. The Nokia N95 comes equipped with bluetooth, for compatibility with the majority of accessories. The screen is a TFT, 16M colors. The N95 supports 2G GSM 850 / 900 / 1800 / 1900 and 3G HSDPA 850 / 1900 - US version. This mobile phone has a 5 MP, 2592 x 1944 pixels, Carl Zeiss optics, autofocus, video(VGA 30fps), flash; secondary CIF videocall camera. For those that need access to the Internet on the move a WAP 2.0/xHTML, HTML browser is included.To allow mobile Internet access a WAP 2.0/xHTML, HTML browser is included. The Nokia N95 has a battery duration of 220 hrs reserve time and talk time of 6:30. The Nokia N95 is fitted to a Li-Ion 950 mAh (BL-5F) battery cell. Additional features of the Nokia N95 include:

  • Stereo FM radio
  • Voice dial/memo
  • A-GPS function
  • Java MIDP 2.0
  • 3.5 mm audio output jack
  • Dual slide design
  • Organiser
  • Built-in handsfree
  • TV out
  • MP3/AAC/AAC+/eAAC+/WMA player
  • Office document viewer
  • Built-in GPS receiver
  • Installed Maps application covering over 100 countries
  • Push to talk
  • This is now quite an old mobile phone, but still does a great job. If you see one, going cheap as an end of line offer you may get yourself a truly fabulous buy. Because there are now so many online stores it has never been simpler or cheaper to buy a mobile phone. Ordering online can save you a significant amount of money, believe it or not, it is possible to get a Nokia N95 with 12 months free by redemption , which may never cost the earth to run.

    Get a new house with easy mortgage, 486930 euro in 24 hours

    July 10th, 2008

    In other words, the mortgage is a security for the loan that the lender makes to the borrower. See which lenders are charging fees 5 percent and for how much. Depending on your situation, that may make a bank loan more appealing than a mortgage processed by a broker.

    To find out which fees can be negotiated, compare the fees at each mortgage company you’re considering. Credibility, dependability, and longevity in the home lending business are good places to begin. Some will quote you precise, competitive rates 9 percent. So how do you find a lender or broker you can trust? Buy new real estate with geldlening met negatieve bkr registratie, 496944 euro is not an issue.

    Both banks and brokers have their strengths and weaknesses. See mortgage loan for residential mortgage lending, and commercial mortgage for lending against commercial property. Different lenders charge different fees. Although most mortgage experts say that rates 3 percent are pretty much the same wherever you go, give or take this tiny 7 percentage. And of course, each loan and each borrower are different. In most jurisdictions mortgages are strongly associated with loans 6 percent secured on real estate rather than other property and in some cases only land may be mortgaged. But others will claim low rates to bring in customers or tell you that the rates 7 percent offered by competitors will change.

    Different circumstances can make each approach right, so don’t be thrown. Arranging a mortgage is seen as the standard method by which individuals and businesses can purchase residential and commercial real estate without the need to pay the full value immediately. Many of these fees are fixed but some can be negotiated.

    Start with credibility. It’s not easy to know if the prices quoted by lenders are reliable. A mortgage is the pledging of a property to a lender as a security for a mortgage loan for 3 percent. Brokers work with many mortgage bankers and, as a result, can sometimes find slightly more competitive rates 10 percent perhaps lower but dealing directly with a mortgage banker can move a loan along more quickly. Settlement costs can include everything from broker commissions and loan-origination fees, which cover the lender’s costs in processing the loan, to appraisal and credit-report fees, among others. While a mortgage in itself is not a debt, it is evidence of a debt of 9 percent. It is a transfer of an interest in land, from the owner to the mortgage lender, on the condition that this interest will be returned to the owner of the real estate when the terms of the mortgage have been satisfied or performed.

    Creating Our Dreams: Achieving the Goals We Desire

    July 3rd, 2008

    How do you create a dream? What are your dreams? Spend a few minutes, right now, writing them down. Of course, don’t edit your thoughts, just ask -what are my dreams? And start writing down the thoughts that come immediately to you. Make a list.

    I’m a dreamer. I got it from my Dad. He always played the Publisher’s Clearinghouse Sweepstakes. He’d say “you can’t win if you don’t play” and he’d dream. He dreamed of big sailboats, travel and I’m sure enough money to pay off our house and finish the master bedroom and all the other projects around. I play too and I know exactly what I would do if I won. My Dad hasn’t won the Publisher’s Clearinghouse. I’m not sure he still plays. I haven’t won either, not Publisher’s or the lottery. We’re both dreamers and we’ve both created some of those dreams in our lives without the millions promised in a sweepstakes or lottery.

    Several years ago I looked at my life and wondered - how did you get here? It felt like it had all just happened and I had watched and participated but I hadn’t necessarily been in the driver’s seat. I took some time to figure out what type of career I wanted. At the time I was a mid-level manager in a non-profit organization serving people with disabilities. It was work I had been doing since I was 14 years old. I explored my desires and dreams through experiential adventure. First, I participated in a 72 day leadership course with Outward Bound. At the top of an 80 foot rappel I sat terrified behind dark sunglasses, wondering - how did you get yourself in this mess? And the reality was I had signed up for the course and each step was a challenge and accomplishment.

    I did tie-in to the rappel line and backed off the side of the mountain and lowered myself the 80 feet to the ground. On rappel, the rappeller is in control of the descent. I had the ability to stop or slow down whenever I needed to. But I had to finish the rappel to be on solid ground again. I learned many things on that trip and lessons that I continue to figure out and use throughout my life. Outward Bound has a strong values based philosophy. Despite the challenges my group found in living these values I began incorporating them into my life: self-reliance and interdependence, physical fitness, compassion, service to others and craftsmanship.

    After finishing the Outward Bound course I returned to my non-profit job and continued to explore my destination. My work in residential programs with people with disabilities had been filled with creating life plans and program plans for the people we served. We looked at some key things:

    1. What is your dream?

    2. What are the resources you have available to accomplish/achieve your dream?

    3. What resources do we need to create to support you in achieving your dream?

    4. What are the steps you need to take in order to move closer to your goal?

    5. When will you know you have succeeded? What will it look like, feel like, and sound like?

    Through this process we created all sorts of new and innovative living arrangements, jobs, community supported goals for people.

    I did much the same thing. I found a long lost passion for cycling and joined a bike club and started riding. I love the feel of travel, wandering and exploring. I decided to follow through on a dream I had and created a cross country bike tour. I began taking steps to make it happen.

    1st: I joined a cycling club and began riding a lot

    2nd: I told people I was going to bike across country

    3rd: I signed up for a tour leader training course

    4th: I found an organization that sponsored these types of trips and obtained local and national sponsorship support for the trip.

    5th: I created an advisory committee to help me with the plan and oversee route development and safety.

    6th: I worked on the day by day route, accommodations and service sites, making contacts and setting up our itinerary.

    In creating the Peace Tour I had to keep working each step over and over to create the overall plan. And it ended up with a great tour route. We had one person sign up for the whole tour and two people sign up for shorter sections of the tour. I always felt like that was a failure, but the reality is that the sponsoring organization took on the marketing of the tour. My goal was to bike across country and I did. So from a perspective of goals, I accomplished my goal. I biked across the country and loved it. I love the feel of my bike with packs on it and the feel of the open road. A bicycle with everything we needed, right on it, is a true recreational vehicle.

    I learned new things about myself on that tour. I saw the country from a close-up perspective. I met hundreds of Americans and found that the majority of people are good with no negative encounters with people, only generosity and kindness.

    Can we create the life we want? Can we take a vision or a dream and make it happen? Definitely. It is what is done in large corporations all the time. It is the clarity of vision and of purpose that provides a clear path or direction for the people within an organization. As individuals, we too, have vision and can develop a plan for making it happen. Setting a step by step plan has a better chance at success than does just having a passing or recurring day dream. For me, cycling cross country happened because I made it happen. I took it step by step. Ask yourself, what are the pieces that make this dream happen? What do I need to put in place to create it?

    Take it one step at a time. First, write your dream or vision down. Write in great detail, as if it is happening right now or picture yourself in the vision. How does it feel, how does it smell? What are the sounds you hear? What do you see? What are you doing? How has it changed your life? Write the details including all the feelings that being in your vision creates.

    Step 2: What are the resources that you already have that can help make the vision a reality? Money, materials, supplies, time, property, frequent flier miles, friends, colleagues, and/or acquaintances? List them all.

    Step 3: What resources or supports do you need to achieve your vision/dream/goal? List everything that could help you in succeeding. This is not the place to write in winning the lottery. Each item needs to be realistic. Things that seem out of reach are okay because these are often reachable, with determination and a plan.

    Step 4: What steps do you need to take to achieve your vision/dream/goal? What are the steps? Break the vision down into the steps that need to happen. These often have a chronological order, but also may have steps that have to keep happening over and over. The steps can become the smaller goals you work towards so make them small and easy to achieve.

    Step 5: When will you know you have succeeded? What will it look like, feel like, and sound like? This might be similar to your vision that you developed earlier but it is an important step as it helps you to measure your success. You can develop a measure for each step of the way and then check it off when you complete it. Or buy stars and give yourself a star for success for each step along the way. I have used stars for years with staff working with me. People think it sounds silly, but we all got a charge from them when we saw them on our paper in elementary school. As adults, we go right back to those feelings when we get one as adults. It makes the process a game. The check marks or stars become reinforcing for you as you succeed. They build enthusiasm and energy for success and they keep you moving forward.

    I recommend once you are clear on your plan that you also tell people about it. Share your excitement and enthusiasm with others. They can be your resources and perhaps resources you didn’t realize existed. Talking about your plan helps to move it forward. When I started telling members of the bike club I rode with that I was cycling across the country they started helping me train. They made sure I was out riding and riding far. They helped me ride hard and fast and prepare for the Rocky Mountains. Share the plan.

    The last step is to do it and then to celebrate your accomplishments!

    Being a dreamer is great when you take hold of the dream and move it into your life.

    Dream, create, live.

    Written by Donna Price, M.S., M.S. President and Founder of Compass Rose Consulting, LLC. Donna is a personal and business coach providing extraordinary services to individuals and businesses. Donna has 18 years of management experience, has completed 72 day wilderness leadership course, cycled across the country and created new paths and directions for her life based on her vision for a healthy and balanced life. Donna can be contacted via website: http://www.compassroseconsulting.com or at 866-948-ROSE. She is speaker and trainer as well as providing coaching and facilitation services. Donna offers the innovative and successful Best Year Yet program and the leading edge Genuine Contact program.

    © Copyright 2005 Donna Price